Also, added some #defines to make symbols visible that are in BSD but not
in UNIX. Solaris needs these, since it's fairly strict with its symbol
visibility in system headers.
Instead of hard-erroring when we don't find dependencies, we just don't
build the things requested and print a warning. This is less annoying to
users because we enable a bunch of things by default. This way, we can at
least build something with the default "cmake" invocation.
Tests are not actually ran on appveyor for now, since they all fault for
some reason. For now, we just build them. Also, some tests are disabled
on msvc entirely, because they don't even compile. We'll need to look
into those, later. They are disabled using `MSVC_DONT_BUILD`.
