diff --git a/toxcore/friend_connection.c b/toxcore/friend_connection.c
index c13ca949..de34e570 100644
--- a/toxcore/friend_connection.c
+++ b/toxcore/friend_connection.c
@@ -265,7 +265,7 @@ static void dht_ip_callback(void *object, int32_t number, IP_Port ip_port)
         friend_new_connection(fr_c, number);
     }
 
-    set_direct_ip_port(fr_c->net_crypto, friend_con->crypt_connection_id, ip_port);
+    set_direct_ip_port(fr_c->net_crypto, friend_con->crypt_connection_id, ip_port, 1);
     friend_con->dht_ip_port = ip_port;
     friend_con->dht_ip_port_lastrecv = unix_time();
 }
@@ -458,7 +458,7 @@ static int handle_new_connections(void *object, New_Connection *n_c)
         friend_con->crypt_connection_id = id;
 
         if (n_c->source.ip.family != AF_INET && n_c->source.ip.family != AF_INET6) {
-            set_direct_ip_port(fr_c->net_crypto, friend_con->crypt_connection_id, friend_con->dht_ip_port);
+            set_direct_ip_port(fr_c->net_crypto, friend_con->crypt_connection_id, friend_con->dht_ip_port, 0);
         } else {
             friend_con->dht_ip_port = n_c->source;
             friend_con->dht_ip_port_lastrecv = unix_time();
@@ -796,7 +796,7 @@ void do_friend_connections(Friend_Connections *fr_c)
 
                 if (friend_con->dht_lock) {
                     if (friend_new_connection(fr_c, i) == 0) {
-                        set_direct_ip_port(fr_c->net_crypto, friend_con->crypt_connection_id, friend_con->dht_ip_port);
+                        set_direct_ip_port(fr_c->net_crypto, friend_con->crypt_connection_id, friend_con->dht_ip_port, 0);
                         connect_to_saved_tcp_relays(fr_c, i, (MAX_FRIEND_TCP_CONNECTIONS / 2)); /* Only fill it half up. */
                     }
                 }
diff --git a/toxcore/net_crypto.c b/toxcore/net_crypto.c
index d74f0bf5..43468b73 100644
--- a/toxcore/net_crypto.c
+++ b/toxcore/net_crypto.c
@@ -1633,11 +1633,13 @@ int new_crypto_connection(Net_Crypto *c, const uint8_t *real_public_key, const u
 }
 
 /* Set the direct ip of the crypto connection.
+ *
+ * Connected is 0 if we are not sure we are connected to that person, 1 if we are sure.
  *
  * return -1 on failure.
  * return 0 on success.
  */
-int set_direct_ip_port(Net_Crypto *c, int crypt_connection_id, IP_Port ip_port)
+int set_direct_ip_port(Net_Crypto *c, int crypt_connection_id, IP_Port ip_port, _Bool connected)
 {
     Crypto_Connection *conn = get_crypto_connection(c, crypt_connection_id);
 
@@ -1661,7 +1663,13 @@ int set_direct_ip_port(Net_Crypto *c, int crypt_connection_id, IP_Port ip_port)
         if (bs_list_add(&c->ip_port_list, (uint8_t *)&ip_port, crypt_connection_id)) {
             bs_list_remove(&c->ip_port_list, (uint8_t *)&conn->ip_port, crypt_connection_id);
             conn->ip_port = ip_port;
-            conn->direct_lastrecv_time = 0;
+
+            if (connected) {
+                conn->direct_lastrecv_time = unix_time();
+            } else {
+                conn->direct_lastrecv_time = 0;
+            }
+
             return 0;
         }
     }
diff --git a/toxcore/net_crypto.h b/toxcore/net_crypto.h
index 9eb5e2d3..a0498b42 100644
--- a/toxcore/net_crypto.h
+++ b/toxcore/net_crypto.h
@@ -223,11 +223,13 @@ int accept_crypto_connection(Net_Crypto *c, New_Connection *n_c);
 int new_crypto_connection(Net_Crypto *c, const uint8_t *real_public_key, const uint8_t *dht_public_key);
 
 /* Set the direct ip of the crypto connection.
+ *
+ * Connected is 0 if we are not sure we are connected to that person, 1 if we are sure.
  *
  * return -1 on failure.
  * return 0 on success.
  */
-int set_direct_ip_port(Net_Crypto *c, int crypt_connection_id, IP_Port ip_port);
+int set_direct_ip_port(Net_Crypto *c, int crypt_connection_id, IP_Port ip_port, _Bool connected);
 
 /* Set function to be called when connection with crypt_connection_id goes connects/disconnects.
  *